Finding Happiness In The Little Things
This February has been absolutely amazing with weather. Although as I sit and write this there is snow melting all around outside, it wasn’t always that case this week. On one particularly sunny day, as I drove home from work I found my thoughts drifting to the little things around me, every day ordinary things that one might not always notice. I noticed the small but steady stream of traffic on my usual route home from work. I noticed the neighbor kids playing soccer because it was finally warm enough for the grass to show and jackets to come out of the closet. As I pulled into my spot in front of the beautiful home I live in, I couldn’t help but marvel at it. I marveled at the unique bricks and the way they stood as both sentinel and foundation, the shiny white fence with the hibernating plants behind it, the elegant features design, all of it seemed to say ‘welcome home’.
Getting out of my car I glanced behind me at the majestic mountains that greet me every morning on my way to work, and every evening when I get back home. I took a deep breath of the cool February air, hearing the passing of cars as others hurried on their way home, anxious for loved ones, dinner, and plans to be kept.
As I started along the sloped sidewalk and driveway, carefully juggling my purse and the twenty other miscellaneous items from the day, I couldn’t help but realize how incredibly lucky I was. I looked back at the surrounding mountains that I couldn’t wait to explore when the weather was warmer, and I smiled a smile of happiness. I walked into a beautiful home that was filled with good energy and women who genuinely care about me and my well-being, and I smiled a smile of happiness. I went to the kitchen where I had all the food I could ever need, and I smiled a smile of happiness. After dinner I went for a walk with a close friend, and amidst the chatter and laughter I smiled a smile of happiness.
I guess what happened that evening was I realized that my happiness wasn’t necessarily all wrapped up in the big thing, although those certainly don’t hurt. No, this time my happiness was a combination, a correlation really, of a bunch of really tiny things and that in and of itself is really quite remarkable.