Life’s too short to go for wimpy haircuts
I cut my hair almost 6 months ago. I went from hair that went past my shoulders to a crazy pixie cut. It was the best thing I ever did.
I realized how attached I was to my hair. I mean, it’s just hair people. Before I had to have long, nice, ‘pretty’ hair. I was stuck in the mind frame that because I was a girl, I had to have long hair to be considered attractive. It’s kind of pathetic how important my hair looking ‘nice’ was. Every day I would spend an hour at least just styling it. Boy have the times changed.
The thing I love the most about short hair is, ironically, people notice you more. You could say we (people with short hair) stick-out like a sore thumb, I prefer to say it’s my sparkling personality;)
I also enjoy the perks that it takes me a total of 30 minutes to get ready for the day. That’s everything from picking-out my outfit to the last touches of make-up before I walk out the door. For a girl who loves her sleep, it’s heaven.
I’ve also realized that there’s so much more to people than their appearance. Seriously. Cutting your hair really helps you see people for who they really are, it’s amazing. There’s those people who judge you, openly, and frankly don’t care about it. That’s okay, because you frankly shouldn’t care about them either. There’s the people, who much like I was before, are stuck in the ‘I have to have long hair to be considered pretty’ mind frame, and that’s okay. Like I said, I’ve been there. But the people who are the coolest are those who have realized that hair is just hair. What looks good on one person won’t necessarily look good on another. It doesn’t mean they’re both not beautiful, haircuts are just a very personal thing. It’s a matter of deciding what you like, what you want, and going for it.
Having short hair I’ve also noticed it is extremely hard to get people to cut your hair. Isn’t that funny? I don’t mean trim it either, I mean really, drastically, completely something different cut it. It used to really frustrate me, for Pete’s sake people, I don’t have that much hair to begin with. There’s only so much damage you can do, and hair grows pretty quickly too. I have recently found a wonderful hairdresser who refers to herself as “Dana Scissorhands” and let me tell you people, she’s great. She gets that hair is just hair, it grows back, and she’s not afraid to go for it.
Now, am I saying that everyone needs to go get a pixie cut. Nope, I’m most definitely not. Long hair is still as beautiful as ever. I’m saying, don’t get caught up in the politics of it all. Your hair is your hair, do with it what you want. If you want the Miley Cyrus, almost shave my entire head off look….go for it. And more power to ya sister!
I’m also saying, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. There is so much more to a person than their looks, their style of clothing, whether they wear make-up or not….etc. What really matters is how someone treats you. Are they a good friend? Meaning, do they make time for you? Care about you? Love you for you? In the end, what’s on the outside is only temporary. What really matters is what you find when you dig a little deeper into someone–their heart.